Choosing the Right Sex Toy
Sex toys come in thousands of different sizes, shapes and functions -- you could
have a different toy for every day of the week! But to narrow the search field,
think about your needs and preferences, and consider the following questions:
- What shapes appeal to you?
- Do you find some sex toys silly looking?
- Do you have a color preference?
- Do you know what materials you like most: silicone, jelly, rubber or plastic?
- Do you want stay traditional or try something new and wild?
- Do you have trouble reaching orgasm during penetration?
- Do you consider yourself to be "clitoral?"
- Do you want to use your toy alone or with a partner?
There's no right answer to any of these questions -- whatever floats your boat
is fine with us! However, you'll have an easier time selecting your pocket pal
if you give it some thought before you try to buy.
Whichever toy you decide to try, let your desires be your guide. Don't let other
people's inhibitions bring you down. There is absolutely nothing wrong with
buying, owning and using sex toys! Whether you use your toys alone or with a
partner, you are enhancing your life and pumping up your sex drive. Furthermore,
you're keeping an open mind and trying something new, which is the key to
life-long learning. So relax and enjoy yourself. Who knows? Perhaps some day
you'll have a whole treasure trove of titillating toys to tickle your fancy!
Traditional Vibrators
Traditional vibrators are typically shaped like a penis and range from 5 to 8 inches in length.
Although available in virtually any color or material, they are typically hard plastic and offer
control of the intensity of a steady vibration. They are a good choice for beginners
as they can be some of the most affordable toys.
G-Spot Vibrators
Close cousins to traditional vibrators, g-spot vibrators are shaped and sized similarly. The main difference between the two is that g-spot vibrators have a curve at the end to make hitting the g-spot that much easier. They are available in all shapes, sizes, and colors.
Clitoral Vibrators
Clitoral vibrators make up a large genre in the vibrator world. Having direct clitoral stimulation in mind, these toys have been known to put the O back into orgasm. Products within this class range from mini non-insertable vibrators to attachments to traditional vibrators. The mini vibes are great because they can be taken anywhere and often lack the appearance of insertable toys. The combo toys on the other hand are useful in the way that they offer the full experience.
Egg Vibrators
Although small and relatively simple, eggs not only hold a strong punch, but usually have a variety of vibration modes on top of the intensity dial. Despite being attached to a power chord, the eggs are incredibly versatile and definitely get the job done.
Hands-Free Vibrators
Also known as Venus or Butterfly Vibrators, these toys are designed to directly stimulate the clitoris without using your hands. They are generally available with leg straps or a suction pump system. They are a great way to spice up your sex life, as they can stimulate a womans clitoris while leaving her vagina exposed for other stimulation.
Anal Vibrators
Many people make the mistake that any vibrator can be used vaginally or anally. Although virtually any object similar to a dildo can be put through a hole of sufficient size, anal vibrators are designed with flared bottoms, or pull strings, to avoid them from getting lost... As funny as it sounds, it happens more commonly then you would think. Whether for a male or female, anal vibrators can greatly increase your stimulation during masturbation, foreplay, or intercourse.
Multi-Purpose Vibrators
Multi-purpose vibrators are designed to stimulate more then one area at a time. Unsurprisingly, a lot of time and effort has gone into designing these products. Some of the more basic models for females include traditional vibrator extensions like clit ticklers, suction, and anal stimulators. Meanwhile, some of the more advanced models can spin and penetrate! Male toys are no less impressive; the Robo Suck 2000 (for example) sucks, strokes, and vibrates all at the same time.
Sleeves
Ranging from a plastic shell, all the way to a full molded mouth, head or torso, sleeves are a good choice for men looking for a hands-off experience. They vary in depth (usually between 4-8 inches) and most commonly vibrate. More advanced toys have suction, can stroke, and even spin. A word for the wary, sleeves are amongst the most difficult toys to clean, so keep that in mind when considering this type of product.
Vibrator Kits
With so much variety, it's difficult to choose a product when you know what you like, let alone when you are just starting out. Luckily, there are kits you can buy that come with several types of vibrators, a few sleeves of various shapes and sizes to put over the vibrators, and some lubricant. Larger kits include different products like blindfolds, beads, paddles, cuffs, and much more. Buying the kit can not only save you money, but expose you to new products so you can further explore your sexuality.
