There's nothing quite like the simple pleasure of a good vibrator. However, choosing the right vibrator can be anything but simple. With the multitude of sizes, shapes, colors, functions and materials available it's no surprise some women feel overwhelmed by the thought of having to select just one. Which vibrator will bring me the most pleasure? Which one is right for my lifestyle? Which one can I share with my partner? Finding the right vibrator can be a stressful process, but it doesn't have to be. With just a basic understanding of your needs and an understanding of how certain vibrators can satisfy those needs you can find one that will make you happy long into the future.
Vibrators can be a good arousal stimulator, help you achieve orgasm by yourself or with a partner, or simply massage aching muscles. Do you enjoy deep, hard penetration? Maybe a vibrating dildo would be a good choice. Or, maybe you would prefer the exquisite touch of external vaginal or clitoral stimulation. In this case a vibrator would work best. Perhaps you would like a combination of the two. A good guide to help you figure out what kind of sex toy you'd like is to ask yourself what kind of stimulation you enjoy during sex with a partner. For example, do you like light or moderate stimulation? Do you enjoy direct clitoral stimulation, or do you prefer more indirect stimulation? The answers to these questions will help you narrow down your choices and give you direction for your search.
Dildos can add fun and excitement to your sex life. They can also help you develop an understanding about your partner and the type of stimulation that arouses him or her. A dildo can also help your partner learn more about you. The end result is a more rewarding sexual experience for the both of you. As you probably already know, dildos come in a wide variety of sizes, shapes and colors. However, not every dildo is right for every person in every situation. Choosing a dildo is more fun when you're armed with the information you need to make the best choice given your unique needs and desires. Maybe a small, colorful dildo would work best for you or your partner. Or perhaps the power of a large, realistic vibrating dildo would better satisfy your desires.
Balls
Balls fall into the category of dildos if they are not attached to a motor. Unlike vibrating balls, the non-motorized versions do not require batteries and are not attached to an electric cord. One of the choices in this category is Ben Wa Balls. A set of Ben Wa Balls consists of two large, smooth ball bearings and are intended to be used by inserting them into the vagina. They work by stimulating internal areas when they rub or knock up against each other. The sensations from Ben Wa Balls are often very subtle and some women do not find them pleasurable. If you're considering a set of Ben Wa Balls, you should consider whether you would find these subtle sensations pleasurable. Another type of ball is the Duotone Ball. Duotone Balls, like Ben Wa Balls, are ball bearings that are encased inside a larger plastic sphere, which is usually made of silicone. The two spheres are connected by a cord, which is used for easy retrieval. Duotone Balls work much the same way as Ben Wa Balls, but the sensations are much more intense because the inner ball bearings of the Duotone Balls have room to move, so they knock against the outer casing, or each other with more force. Duotone Balls can be used by either placing both balls inside the vagina, or by placing one inside and letting the other ball hang out.
Strap-On Dildos
Strap-on Dildos are dildos that can be attached, if desired, to a harness. Harnesses usually require that the dildo have a flat or flared base to stay attached during use. The dildo is inserted through a hole in the harness, and the harness is then strapped to the user. The exception to this rule is the Vac-U-Lock Harness. This harness comes with a plug which accepts specially designed dildos that have a hole at the base. The vacuum created when the plug is inserted into the hole is enough to keep the dildo in place.
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